For the longest time, my husband and I were feeling…disconnected and honestly, bored with our sex life. We both could feel the tension, but let’s be real, that is not the easiest thing to talk about. When it comes to sex, we just never really brought up the issues we were facing because it felt way too uncomfortable to talk about.
That was until my best friend told me about the oOYes Sex Quiz and how it completely changed her sex life. This definitely piqued my curiosity. Since I had never even heard of a “sex quiz” and had no idea what that really meant. I decided to find out for myself.
I was pleased to find I could take the quiz by myself so I didn’t even have to say anything about it to my husband unless I wanted to. The sex quiz consisted of 100 questions or “sex acts” that were divided into 9 categories. The quiz had me answer each question by choosing oOYes (I’m interested), oONo (I’m definitely not interested), or oOMaybeSo (I’m possibly interested). At first glance I definitely did not know what some of the sex acts were. Luckily, each one had a little description to give me more detail and help me decide whether I was interested in trying it or not. I finished the quiz in about 15 minutes and at the end received my kink score. I was shocked to find out there are actually a lot of sex acts I am interested in but never even thought to try. The quiz had me answer each question by choosing oOYes (I’m interested), oONo (I’m definitely not interested), or oOMaybeSo (I’m possibly interested). At first glance I definitely did not know what some of the sex acts were. Luckily, each one had a little description to give me more detail and help me decide whether I was interested in trying it or not. I finished the quiz in about 15 minutes and at the end received my kink score. I was shocked to find out there are actually a lot of sex acts I am interested in but never even thought to try.
My results page showed up immediately and I was given the option to save my answers and share the quiz with my partner. This way I could share the quiz with my husband for him to take and it would only show us the answers we matched on. At that moment I realized the magic of this quiz…I could say oOYes to any of the sex acts I wanted to try and it only showed my husband if he was also interested. This was perfect because it gave us a safe space to bring up new sexy things.
As soon as my husband got home that night, I told him all about it and asked if I could send him the quiz. He was SO excited and took it right away! We discovered we are both pretty adventurous and had a ton of matches! Neither one of us had any idea we would both be interested in a threesome or dressing up in costumes or even being blindfolded during sex. We spent hours that night talking about all the things we wanted to try and had the best sex we’ve ever had. We both felt that even just feeling like we could finally break that barrier and talk about sex comfortably with each other made us feel so much more connected.
Since then, we have tried so many new things and our sex life just gets better and better. Our marriage in general has dramatically improved. We are excited about sex and having a lot more of it! We both feel a lot closer to each other.
I now understand why my friend said this sex quiz changed her life…because it changed mine too.
-- Mary B.
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